Monday, February 14, 2011

Spoil The Child

I have the hardest time trying not to spoil my daughter. I know that eventually she is going to grow up and I will eventually have to switch to telling her "No", but she is just so freaking cute! My daughter, Macy, is 7 months old and it still amazes me how she makes me feel. I'm sure any mother knows what I am talking about, you can't deny your children. I spoil the crap out of Macy! I think she knows it to. She is so smart and observant. I got my taxes back the other day and went to go buy her new clothes because she is growing so fast that she has already grown out of her 12 month clothes that she got for christmas. I spent a BUNCH of money on her. She is my only child, which also makes her my first, so I can't help but spoil her. She loves me to death. She will raise her arms and look at me with a pitiful look so that I will pick her up. It always works on me! I can't help it! Everytime she gives me that look I just melt. Anyway, I brought all the stuff I bought for her home and pulled everything out of the bags and showed them to her. I said, "Look what mommy got you!" and her face just lit up and she squealed with delight! I give her attention all the time. My poor husband is like, "Where is my lovin' at?". He spoils Macy to. Macy loves to play with Brian and in return Brian thinks it's so cute so he plays with her all the time. She is very loved if you haven't figured that out by now. This is just the half of my story. This blog is really about the toy box that I specially ordered for her. I had a nice room all to myself until my siblings were born. I was spoiled until two years later when my sister came into this world. No, I don't hate my siblings, I love them. Since I had Macy, I couldn't decide if I wanted to get my tubes tied or if I wanted to have another child someday so I got this birth control called the Implanon. It is a little rod that they insert into your arm and it doesn't come out for three years. I figured that was a good choice because three years should be plenty of time to decide if I want another baby. I don't want another baby right now though. I'm a very busy lady as it is and I want to give Macy some time to enjoy being the only child while she is still young. I want to spoil her a little bit 'cause she is my first and only baby. I was told a long time ago that I probably wouldn't be able to have children because I have Crohn's Disease, but Macy came out very healthy. I didn't have one problem with her when I was pregnant and the Pediatrician says she is very healthy and developing perfectly. I was put on high risk though while I was pregnant so that way they could monitor me and make sure nothing did go wrong, so, yea, I'm gonna love and spoil Macy for a long while. Anyway, back to the bedroom conversation, I have took it upon myself to personalize and beautify my daughter's room. I've done a really good job, if I do say so myself! Her room is entirely covered in pink and purple butterflies and flowers. I bought a lot of the stuff like her lamp, night light, wall decorations, blankets, cushions, and rugs from the Sugar Plum collection by CoCaLo at Babies R' Us. Anyway, I found a wooden bench toy box that matched the collection and purchased it. I had to order it online because it wasn't sold in stores. The toy box finally came in on Friday and I made my husband, Brian, put the toy box together. I sat my daughter on my lap and let her watch Brian put the toy box together. I pointed and said, "Look what mommy got you! Something to put your toys in! Isn't it pretty?" She just smiled and squealed with delight! I was so happy and the toy box was cute! I am going to protect that thing with my life and maybe someday she can give it to her daughter. That freakin' thing cost me $200.00! It was all worth it though whenever Brian got it all put together and I sat her on top of it. She just loved it! She was giggling and kicking her feet with a big grin on her face while she was sitting on top of it! I'm such a sucker for that little grin of hers! Well, here are some pictures of my daughter and her toy box. I wonder if I'm crazy for spending that amount of cash on that toy box for her matching room.



7 comments:

  1. She is just precious. Your love for her is overwhelming (as it should be) in this article. Macy is a very lucky girl to have such loving and devoted parents. I think it is fine to spoil a child at this age. She certainly looks happy. I have a only son, so I completely understand giving them all your attention. I am happy to report he is a grown man now and doing great in life. So whether you decide to have another child or not, I have a feeling Miss Macy will be just fine!

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  2. She’s beautiful and extremely lucky to have you as her mom. I say spoil her! My kids are grown and their still spoiled, but I'm proud to say they are both wonderful ,responsible young adults.

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  3. Very lucky indeed tbh I don't think you can really "spoil" a child at that age just because they don't really know the concept. But once they begin to realize that things cost money yet still beg for it then the spoiling will have consquences.

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  4. The pictures are adorable. You sound like an amazing mom:) It is ok to spoil her. I have two boys ages 9 and 5 and I still spoil them rotten. I can't help to still treat my 5 year old like he is my baby. I was pregnant about a year ago, we thought we wanted another one, and it ended in miscarriage. I was about 4 months along and went for an ultra sound. I had no idea anything was even wrong and they told me there was no heartbeat. I had to have a d and c and was told I was some cancerous cells. It was a long year but I am good now and have decided we are so blessed to have the two kids we have so I am done trying. I may have to look into that birth control you mentioned. I believe my husband is going to be a good guy and get the problem fixed so we can't have anymore:). Anyway, my point was I think it is great you spoil her and show her how much you love her. They look up to us and are only little once. I love the toybox too!

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  5. Cute baby! I know what it is like to try to tell your kids no. It doesn't work well for me either. I have two daughters and I am a single dad. The just have to give me their looks and the I go ok.

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  6. How cute. You seem a lot like my wife she spends a small fortune doting on the kids. If it wasn't for me being the voice of reason she would be totally out of control. Nice blog.

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  7. Macy is a very cute little girl! I was not spoiled as a child and many times I am thankful for that. I do not plan on spoiling my children too much. However, when they are young they do not understand, so I would be doing the same thing! The problem develops when they become old enough to start picking up on it. There are some children who have been spoiled all their life, but do not seem like it; however, many grow up to be the annoying kids that think they will and can get anything they want. I do not have kids, but I do work with kids and sometimes it is hard to say no (especially to the cute ones). However, I believe I am a better person today because my parents did not spoil me a lot. My parents definitely could have spoiled all of us and catered to our wants, but they made us appreciate what we had and they taught us that we are not always going to get what we want in life. The times our parents did spoil us, they always got us something better than what we asked for. I say when she gets older that as long as you teach her the world is not always going to give her what she wants, there is nothing wrong the spoiling her every now and then.

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